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Kaye says: "Every type of connection we have to another human being is a 'relationship', and the better we learn to communicate - or recognise the complements in the contrasts - the more peaceful lives we'll lead." 

From the early 90s, Kaye recognised that people suffered lengthy therapy sessions that only ended up getting them deeper into their misery and it made no sense at all.  From her background, in supporting highly-stressed journalists returning from war zones, the Merseyside Police Force and the British Army, as well as helping the homeless and also elderly people with stress arising from dementia and stroke, she was led to believe there had to be another way to tackle all these anxiety states and said:

"I kept seeing people going round and round in circles from relationship to relationship - repeating the same mistakes without ever knowing why.  I knew that the majority of people didn't know what they are doing wrong - but I've learned some simple techniques that can be put into practice very quickly and they save a lot of heartache from day one - even if you're in danger of facing the divorce courts!  I've invested a lot of time and money in learning to teach new skills so that they can help you turn things around now."

Kaye's "Sx Education" bulletins aim to save you from the pain of parting, by showing you how to get the most out of your relationship.  And she reckons she's ideally placed to help after battling through three relationships herself.

In her lifetime, Kaye has had three long-term partnerships - and paid a high price for the lessons they gave her.  "Low-self esteem and depression was what I had.  No confidence and, because I felt so rejected, I felt worthless."

As a result, she knows the symptoms and wants others to recognise them too.  She said: "I was a typical female in my 20s who didn't know what she wanted - career or family.  I lived the idyllic 'Laura Ashley' lifestyle in a Cotswold cottage, but felt no love.  My relationship was empty.  I did all the usual things, cry like a baby, indulge in tremendous mood swings and stockpile all the problems until they were too huge to handle.  When I finally became brave enough to end the first relationship, I went straight into the arms of a dashing young British Army Officer who, after the initial honeymoon period, treated me the same way as the first lover.  I left him for another guy who was the opposite - kind, shy, quiet - but ended up with the same problems."

"They were three completely different men - looks, character and actions - yet the result was the same, so I began to think that it was something inside me - so began my research."

Kaye became a therapist after securing her certificates to practice energy medicine and head massage.  She then added natural nutrition which expanded to include brief psychotherapy skills to her list of qualifications (see below).

She adds: "After suffering relationship problems myself, and learning all that I have about the male/female brain and behaviour patterns, I can show people how to make the most of their relationships and manage their responses to difficult situations."

Kaye feels the recent rows between Madonna and Guy, Mel Gibson and his wife Robyn, Jordan and Peter, as well as many other high profile celebrities, goes to show that people still haven't got it right.

She said: "If, like me, you are sick and tired of hearing yourself arguing with each other in public, slating each other bitterly and not communicating very well, you've come to the right lady.  For the last 20 years, I have worked very closely with people who have had relationship troubles, to get them back on track, genuine people who were finding it hard to create that spark that makes love happen again."

Contact her today - Kaye will show you how you can save your relationship, communicate easier and keep your passion alive.

She has written her first book: "Depression, - how to help yourself through it"  and currently lives with her dog in Yorkshire, United Kingdom. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Text Box: TOP TIP  - You and I
To get some communication going in your life right now, here's an immediate action to try:
Save time and heartache immediately, by switching from the 'YOU' word to 'I'.  
We all get sick and tired of hearing what and how much we've done wrong, and if we keep blaming our partner by saying "You are a waste of space!" ... well, I'm reminded of an old saying 'if things don't change, they'll stay the same.'  
Try it for yourself.  Look in the mirror and point your finger at you.  How does it feel?  To get out of the never-ending blame trap, the next time your partner irritates you, start by saying "I don't feel very good when that's said to me."  
No one can argue with that. 

 

 

 

 

 


     

 

Kaye Bewley HG.Dip.P., EFT-ADV

 
How Kaye's psychotherapy practice is ethically run

Kaye understands she has a limit to her medical knowledge and, as a result, continually updates her learning skills and is regularly assessed via a psychotherapy support group.   She is under obligation to maintain her Continuing Professional Development score, in order to continue in practice.

She is a broad-minded person who respects your point of view in all situations. 

Her practice is based on using straightforwardness, rather than historic dogma and dreary theory.  She works from a position of honest development and self-understanding.

Her language is non-technical and she will find a balance in her communications with you. 

She will avoid, at all costs, putting 'labels' on your issues and will take tremendous care not to inadvertently create false memories about events in your life. 

The patterns in your behaviour and life offer more clues to finding your relief than the content of your issues, and Kaye will pay attention to these.

Her priority, as a Human Givens psychotherapist, is to identify your unmet emotional needs, then to match them with your resources and abilities.

She will not encourage you to depend on her and will encourage you to find your own strength by negotiating clear goals with you.

All her fees are listed in the Order Form area and there are no additional or hidden costs.

While respecting your confidentiality, Kaye has to keep records and will - from time to time - take notes.  You are always free to request these and, moreover, Kaye recognises you have a right to view them.

She is fully covered with comprehensive professional liability insurance.

 

Qualifications & Professional Memberships:

Psychotherapy MA, Nottingham Trent University (Student at present - if you have any research project ideas, I'd be pleased to consider them)

Human Givens, Diploma, Post Graduate (HG.Dip.P)

Member of Human Givens Institute (MHGI)

EFT Advanced Practitioner (EFT-ADV)
EFT Master Class London

 

Psychotherapy (HG) Certificates

Brain-sex (Relationship Therapy/Couple Counselling)

Brief Psychotherapy Strategies

Brief Therapy Skills for Stopping Addictions

Dealing with Conflict, Confrontation and Disputes

Effective Anger Management

From Stress to Psychosis

Guided Imagery & Visualisation for Therapeutic Change

How to do Effective Counselling

How to Lift Depression

How to Lift Low Self-Esteem

How to Tell Stories That Heal

Managing Pain without the use of Drugs

Self Harm to Self Belief

Understanding Anxiety

Understanding and Stopping Addictive Behaviour

Working with Challenging and Complex Cases

 

Courses:

Celebrating Love

Communication Skills

Couple Counselling

In Sync with the Opposite Sex

Mind/Body Nutrition

Relaxation and Meditation Techniques

The Amazing Development of Men

The Five Forces of Wellness

Understanding Women

 

Other Certificates

Certificate Childcare

Certificate Emergency First Aid (HSE)

Certificate Indian Head Massage

 

Memberships of Professional Organisations:

Member of The Human Givens Institute (MHGI)

Member of Complementary Medicines Association (CMA)
Member of The British Association of Nutritional Therapists (BANT Sdnt)

       Regulations

           

I work in accordance with the Regulated Codes of Practice, am subject to Independent Complaints Procedure for:
           Criminal Records Bureau (CRB)

           Qualifications
           Terms, conditions and methods of treatment
           Client confidentiality
           Professional relationships
           Research and publications
           Practitioner competence
           Personal and professional behaviour
           Post qualification supervision
           Professional Indemnity Insurance (via Balens - www.Balens.co.uk)

 

 

Legal Statement

If you have a serious medical condition these Workshops, Seminars and Private & Group sessions are not a substitute for treatment by a qualified doctor. It is not legal for therapists of alternative practices to diagnose, treat or cure illness, but it is legal for alternative therapists to offer to educate people and offer guidance tools to keep their bodies’ energies healthy.  The Energy Therapy Workshops are taught by an Advanced Practitioner of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). Course materials can be made available.  Private sessions by arrangement.          

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